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The Brass King at The Medu Bookstore
Mami Provi Elder Leader


The Art of Loving My Children Through Divorce

written and illustrated by

Javier Armando Rivera aka The Brass King.

This is not only a literary submission limited to your local bookstore, but a beacon message of a movement for men who are displaced from their families. This work addresses the five senses. Through this book there is a current movement for fathers that can be displayed at pop-up galleries through it's visual component, it can be heard at venues through it's spoken word element, and it will be felt and inspiring through it's written word and real life experience.

What Readers Are Saying


5.0 out of 5 stars 

REQUIRED reading for every MAN forcibly separated from his children...

Reviewed in the United States on September 1, 2020

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...And for every woman who contributes to the separation. Many times while reading this book I was tempted to look away so as not gawk at his nakedness. I appreciate being invited to witness this leg of Javier's journey and to get a glimpse of what real courage is... And what it is not. One cannot help but to be moved by his raw pureness of expression... in all it's forms. They say that pain inspires the best art. If that is true, then this love letter to his babies is Bekay's masterpiece. Sending energy of forgiveness, protection & healing to his entire family, especially his children.


This book showcases his love and devotion to his kids in the medium he is the most comfortable, through his first love— drawings, poetry and music. It is a beautiful example of how a father’s love for his children doesn’t end with the dissolution of a marriage. His fight is REAL and needs to be highlighted for the sake of the children he adores.

D n A's Mom

There are so many words to say; however I will say that I AM reading this book of the vulnerability of a father’s love for his children, and how the impact of choices and decisions made by ourselves, and others can change the dynamic of raising our children. Often times, we hear only the side of the woman’s journey, and our struggles with raising children as single parents with the question orbiting around “where is the father?” We do not hear the father’s story really; perhaps it’s not as important in the eyes of society - but our children’s behavior is proving otherwise due to fathers that are intentionally and systematically being separated from their child(ren) lives. @thechildsupporttour has opened his heart to share his journey, along with I AM sure countless men that is experiencing or have experienced similar situations. The artwork is phenomenal! Place your order!!

C Witherspoon

This book represents a part of society that is not celebrated enough, and that is a vulnerable man and Father stepping out of his comfort zone and putting himself in the middle to have the world look at divorce and its affects on the entire family from a true Fathers perspective. The author captures all ages and backgrounds with his heart work through poetry, art and written testaments. He affirms that there can be change and growth and this is why I would recommend this book to anyone and everyone because we all deal with some level of family dysfunction and can all take a page from what Mr. Rivera has so thoughtfully and provokingly expressed through his many mediums.

C Thomas

Fathers play a crucial role in the upbringing of their children. Numerous studies have shown that their presence and involvement have a positive impact on their children's development. It is important for fathers to be present and engaged in their children's lives to foster healthy relationships and promote well-being.

Los padres desempeñan un papel crucial en la crianza de sus hijos. Numerosos estudios han demostrado que su presencia y participación tienen un impacto positivo en el desarrollo de sus hijos. Es importante que los padres estén presentes y comprometidos en la vida de sus hijos para fomentar relaciones saludables y promover el bienestar.

Co-parenting with fathers is crucial for the overall health and well-being of children. Studies have shown that children who have both parents actively involved in their lives have better mental and physical health outcomes. By working together, mothers and fathers can create a supportive and nurturing environment that promotes positive development for their children.

La crianza compartida es un aspecto esencial para criar niños saludables y felices. Cuando ambos padres están involucrados en la vida de sus hijos, puede llevar a mejores resultados de salud emocional y física. Al trabajar juntos, las madres y los padres pueden crear un ambiente de apoyo y cuidado que promueva el bienestar general de sus hijos.

It is important for children to have both their mothers and fathers involved in their lives, as each parent brings their own valuable qualities and perspectives to their upbringing. Additionally, observing a loving and healthy relationship between their parents can serve as a positive example for children as they navigate their own future relationships.

Los niños se benefician enormemente al tener a su madre y padre involucrados en sus vidas. Cada padre aporta sus propias cualidades y perspectivas únicas a su crianza, lo que puede ayudarlos a desarrollarse como individuos completos. Además, presenciar una relación amorosa y saludable entre sus padres puede servir como un ejemplo positivo para los niños mientras navegan por sus propias relaciones futuras"

A fathers love letter to his babies is a masterpiece that showcases the power of love and the strength of the human spirit. Through his raw and pure expression, he invites us to witness his journey and to be moved by his courage as a father. This is a testament to the fact that even in the midst of pain, beauty can emerge as a reflection for all fathers. 

I loved my dad he was a good father. He is an example to all fathers.

Fathers are needed 

Fathers matter

Fathers are important

Fathers are significant

dont forget good dads and good fathers.  

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